The role of parents in the success of the child

The parent is a word that cannot be expressed with any meaning. The meaning of this word may never be given by a dictionary. Because there is a lot of self-sacrifice behind these two words. And about 90 percent of this sacrifice is for their children. They are ready to give all their happiness to the child. Believe me, they will never think of sacrificing their own happiness for the sake of their child. Ever since becoming a parent, every woman and man has had one of the main dreams surrounding their child.

Let their world be with their child. Parents always think about their child's life, future, and success. Pray till the last moment of life for the beautiful life and success of the child. In addition to thinking and praying for the child, parents do their best for the child's success. But success does not come by itself, we want the right steps for it. By relying on them, children can reach the pinnacle of their success. So in order to see the child succeed and to play a role in their success, the parents have to take some steps while the child is still young. They need to lay some foundation in their hearts. The seeds of some moral education must be planted in their hearts at an early age. Then one day the tree will be made from it and at the end of the day, you will get the sweet fruit called success.

Here are 13 steps you need to take to get your child to the golden peak of success. Only then will the child become a human being with success:

1. The teaching of values:

We think of money, name, fame as the success of life in most cases. These are the successes of life, that's right. But the greatest success in life lies in being a good and enlightened person. There is no alternative to pursuing it. And if he is a man of an enlightened mind, he will not cause any harm to society. Those who are endowed with these qualities can never do evil. We know that success comes with honesty. So if the foundation is right, the money will come. Parents need to understand this. Good job, enough money is needed for life. But before that, her child has to be human. Otherwise, there will be no price for any of these things. So every parent should teach his child mortality from an early age. Honesty, fairness, modesty, shame, the difference between truth and falsehood must be understood. Remember that family is the biggest place of education for a child. And parents are the greatest teachers.

2. Being a role model for the child:

Those who have been successful in life have been inspired by someone at some point. Sometimes it has been done directly or indirectly. And all those people are our role models to us. But the biggest role model for a child is his parents. Children love to imitate. They always want to be like their parents in an ideal way and imitate them in everything. For this reason, parents need to be more careful. And in fact, for the beautiful future of the child, they have to present themselves as role models in front of the child.

• Refrain from any criticism of other family members in front of the child.

• If someone gives a gift, never criticize the gift in front of the child.

• Thank someone in the family for help. Express gratitude. Get out of the idea that people in the house can’t be thanked. This small step will teach your child to be grateful.

• If someone in the family makes a mistake, apologize to each other.

• Get permission before taking anything personal or useful. Even if it is another family member's thing, get permission. Then your child will not catch anyone's things without permission. It's a shame to take someone's things invisibly. Explain to the child that it is a case of theft in many cases.

• In many cases, we lie with the child when someone is actually at home or on the telephone. ‘Tell me, the father is not at home.’ - If the child learns such lies from the parents, he can also lie to the parents in the same way when the child grows up.

• All in all, after having a child, you have to get rid of your bad habits and become a role model for the child.

3. Social studies:

No one likes antisocial people. So they can't achieve success in life. Because people are social creatures. We cannot continue in society without people. Because in each case, we have the opportunity to move forward with the help of others or in a friendly manner. But if he is anti-social, no one will come forward with his help. As a result, despite having qualifications, he will have to wear the badge of failure on his forehead. So the child should be given the opportunity to be social from an early age. The child should be allowed to play with peers. If there is a problem, the parents should not help, he should encourage his friends to solve his problem. But parents must see to it that the child does not go astray while learning socialization. In some cases, the child has to be observed from a distance. Because if the child mixes with bad people, he will become like them. So it is necessary to keep the eyes and ears open.

4. Allowed to do small chores around the house:

If you learn a job, that job never fails. In one way or another, that education comes in handy along the way. Work does not allow laziness in people. Work awakens people's sense of responsibility. On the other hand, those who do not work have a terrible disease called laziness in their body. Which makes people sneeze. Lazy people can never taste success. So parents should give their children small responsibilities at home from the age of 5. Through this, his sense of responsibility will develop. This sense of responsibility will help him to succeed in many areas of life. Responsible people get success in life one day or another. So give responsibility to the child in proportion to his age. Such as arranging toys after the game, keeping the reading table clean, learning to tie shoelaces, etc.

5. Less stress:

In this competitive world of the 21st century, everyone wants to see their position first. In this case, I would say that parents are ahead. They instill in their children the urge to be first in the competition. And the mental pressure applied to the children to hold or take a position. This is the common scene around us. But every parent should keep their child stress-free. Because this pressure will be an obstacle to their success, and they will fall prematurely. Therefore, along with teaching responsibility from an early age, it is important to see that nothing causes stress to the child. Never pressure your child to study. Moreover, if there is a mental dilemma between the parents, the child also gets stressed. Which may adversely affect his life in the future. If the parents are under stress due to family or other reasons, do not let the child understand. Try to keep yourself relaxed and positive in front of him. The child will get the right environment and the future will be beautiful.

6. To build pursuit and ambition:

To be successful in life, you need to set the right goals. Must be accompanied by pursuit and ambition. Achieving success is never possible without pursuit. Their unwavering pursuit has played a role in the success of every successful person. That is the key to success. The ladder of success is built with the pursuit and hard work. The desired corridor can be found through the right steps. So parents need to make the child interested in achieving the goal. The importance and role of pursuit must be understood. At the same time, he has to be ambitious. So we have to make sure that ambition does not go to an unimaginable level. And the child does not make false, dishonest ways to succeed.

7. Parents' ideas about nutrition:

If you want to be successful, you have to have talent along with hard work. Because if you work in the wrong place, all the work will be in vain. So intelligence is needed to achieve success. Therefore, every parent should pay attention to the development of the child's body and brain from an early age for the beautiful life and success of the child. Her food list should be nutritious. Parents, therefore, need to have proper knowledge about the nutrition of food. According to that, feeding the child will ensure the health of the child as well as the future will be beautiful.

8. Higher education of parents:

Parents have a big role in the success of the child. If the parents are not educated, they will fail to give proper education to the child. I have said before that family is the biggest field of education and parents are the biggest teachers. For this, the parents have to be highly educated. And if the parents are highly educated, the child will also get a proper education. At the same time, the child will also want to get a higher education like parents and be successful in life.

9. A good relationship with the child:

The child's relationship with the parents should be beautiful and normal. For this, parents have to play the biggest role. The bond with the parents must be strong for the proper development of the child. The best support for the child is the parents. The child's close bond with the parents is very important for the child's future success.

It is not only the responsibility of the parents to wish their child success. In order to achieve that success, we must prepare ourselves to develop the child properly. Bad habits must be eliminated, positive qualities must be acquired. This pursuit of parents will not only bring success to their child, but the nation will also get a worthy successor.

10. Positive attitude:

Every parent needs to see their child in a positive light. It not only helps children to build confidence, but it also helps to inspire them. Just as your self-confidence skyrockets when you lean on it. On the other hand, if parents look at their child's abilities in a negative light, then their self-confidence goes down. Their motivations are deficient so that they cannot move forward and are sent down the road of failure. So you have to have confidence in the child's ability. And remember that many things are possible if he is attentive. So help inspire her with her positive outlook.

11. Choose a good name:

Studies have shown that your name plays a big role in the development of life. Owners of short, fluent, easy-to-pronounce names gain more reputation in professional life.

12. Working woman, meritorious child:

Research from Harvard Business School has shown that children of working mothers are more talented. Studies have shown that children of working mothers are interested in education. He also dreams of taking himself forward in the workplace. Besides, they are also interested in earning more. On the other hand, the habit of watching a mother outside the house developed from childhood. As a result, the boys do not show reluctance to do housework and take care of the children later on. The children of working mothers keep themselves away from gender discrimination from an early age.

13. Smiling mother, children will be happy:

According to a report in the Washington Post, how much time children spend with their mothers between the ages of 3 and 11 depends on their behavior, achievement, and well-being. The habit of keeping a close eye on children will play a bad role here. She feels pressured to finish her work and spend time with her child. In addition, many times the mother is tired, irritable. This has a lot of negative effects on the child. If the mother is mentally disturbed, the child can easily feel it. He is also upset and scared.

Finally, your child is the future of the nation. Don't kill him by strangling his infinite talent by pressuring him for the wrong thing called competition in this world. Maybe that talent can become the torch of light that changes the world.