Want to be a happy couple? Then follow the tips

Happiness is a matter of practice. It is not very difficult to be happy if you are aware of some things. It is possible to make conjugal life beautiful and happy through cooperation by helping each other, understanding the advantages and disadvantages.

There are some couples who pretend to be happy. There is no lack of anything — lack of just a little faith, trust, and love. Doubt, caring for each other, the tendency to pretend is what drives them into mental anguish.

U.S. author Tahereh Mafi says, ‘You are the oxygen for your partner’s happiness. It is impossible to survive on such a green planet without oxygen; It is also difficult and meaningless for your partner to survive without your trust, faith, and love. '

The national poet of Bangladesh Kazi Nazrul Islam wrote in his poem: "Everything in the world that is beautiful, everlasting good,/Half of it is rolled by women, half by men. "

There are many people who call conjugal life as the deep sea. But the world is no longer a mysterious island. Men and women are now sided by side in every challenge in the world. It is not possible to be sad at all. Must be expecting happiness.

In the conjugal life of husband and wife, everyone has three lives — one for himself, one for his partner, and one for both. This wonderful realization belongs to the world-famous British actress Jacqueline Bisset.

If such a realization can be easily adopted in conjugal life, then happiness is bound to be captured. The definition of happiness is not the same for everyone. Some people are happy when they have time with their partners. Someone's happiness depends on eating and staying in expensive hotels, traveling abroad, etc.

Love vs. affection

Is there a difference between love and affection? Affection is the choice of a flower on the way to the street and picked it up. You threw the flower away when it dried up or didn't look good. And love is to take care of that flowering plant, to plant flowers in it and to keep it side by side. This love is the life and essence of a happy conjugal life.

There is a touch of sweetness in the word couple. It seems that the two pigeons continue to talk together. The rhythmic presence of the two in the hanging house of the weaver makes the house stronger. The straw in one's face and the other is building a house with it in the joy of the mind. Feeding the children by mouth. Swaying in the wind. Staying together even in the storm. The faith of one is the lifeblood of the other.

Conjugal is the cohabitation of husband and wife and the maintenance of the family. Being together, understanding each other's feelings, and being able to respond to them is the key to a happy conjugal life. The happy couple looks like a shining mirror. It does not cast a shadow of sorrow. Instantly disappears. Compromising behavior makes their lives happier and easier.

Tips for a happy conjugal life

Correct time: 

Disagreement is a normal part of conjugal life. This requires a joint discussion between the two. But constructive discussion and criticism are very important for making the right decision. During such discussions, it is not possible to speak harshly to one another. It is also a harmful tendency to make a decision by pausing in the middle of one's speech. The partner should then start talking with the opportunity to complete his speech.

For both: 

a mind-like companion is a relative idea. No one can be like anyone else's mind. However, if one can have the mentality of giving some concessions thinking about the other, then the relationship is much sweeter. One of the two may be crazy about the game, the other about the song. If both of them are busy with their own insanity and do not value the other's choice, it will never be possible to have a good time together. So even if you don't like the song program, you can try to enjoy it by thinking about your partner. In the same way, when two people go to watch a game together, it is enjoyable to be close to each other as well.

Strong together: 

Conjugal life or family is actually like a team. The more he thinks alone, the more he will be alone. However, if the problem of two people can be one, it is much easier to solve the problem. So you have to try to take your partner's problems with you. Suppose one's weight is increasing dangerously. The two of them can try to live a healthier life together without constantly reminding him to lose weight. At least the two of them went to the gym together. Or thinking about your partner, you can remove the funny food from your plate and take vegetable bread. Hard work is also very enjoyable when done together.

The real goal is to be good: 

how many mistakes can be made in the way of life? Again, many unpleasant things may have to be accepted because of the situation. For example, a special day may be missed for work or a relative may be mistaken for a close friend. Expressing resentment or bitterness among ourselves is not the practice of a good relationship. Ignoring the small things and staying well at the end of the day is the key to conjugal life.

Don't be reluctant to seek help: 

If the relationship is going to get out of hand, it is better to seek counseling or psychological help directly from a specialist instead of just nurturing the ego. Surveys have shown that those who seek expert help are more successful and happier than those who do not. If it is not possible to take the help of an expert, then the advice of a well-wisher or friend can be taken. But whatever the direction of the advice, the advice must be the one that keeps the relationship going. Breaking up a relationship to avoid problems is not a good decision.

A lot of things: 

To make the relationship beautiful, the tendency to talk between the two should be increased as much as possible. There will be no barriers to talk about. Every subject is main and valuable. Whether it's marketing, financial planning, child-rearing, or just about clothes. Talking may or may not be very fun, but the practice of giving feedback and listening always keeps the relationship smooth.

Stay together, do it together: 

There must be a common choice between two people. Maybe both of them love to eat or both of them love rain or both of them like an actor. Whatever the task or subject matter, hold it together and do some work together. If you love to eat, plan to eat new foods together. If you love the rain, plan to go out in the rain together, listen to music, and plan a walk to celebrate the rain. You can look back at the old movies of your favorite actors. All in all, we need to create an environment where we can spend a lot of time with each other. The bond of the relationship is stronger if there is side by side.

Adding variety to life: 

Doing the same thing every day brings boredom to the mind which causes annoyance and bitterness. Adding some diversity to life is needed to protect from this. Excluding mountain and sea vacations, it is not bad to go for a walk in the desert. It is also a good variety to sit at home and watch movies without getting tired of going for a walk on holiday. However, in order to bring variety, one should also refrain from putting undue pressure on the partner, making him work harder or spending more than he can afford.

Communication: 

In the modern busy age, everyone is busy with their own work and world. This busyness increases when both are employed. So be aware of daily communication. Many keep in touch through WhatsApp or SMS. But according to psychologists, be ‘verbal’ when it comes to communication. Try to call every day even if you are away. A few written words do not complement a person's attachment to the voice of a loved one. So try to increase communication.

Change of work: 

Sometimes you do each other's work yourself to reduce the work pressure of your partner. There is no difference between the work of men and the work of women. We make that distinction. Help each other work to add new spice to the relationship, sometimes doing it yourself.

Sex life: 

The role of sex life in maintaining a healthy and normal family life is huge. There is no comparison to reduce mental anxiety. So maintain a healthy sex life according to physical needs. Give importance to the collective desire and needs during sex.

Importance of physical changes: 

With age comes some physical changes regardless of gender. It also affects the sex life. Learn to be patient in that case. If there is a problem, take the help of a doctor. But don't do or comment on things that are offensive to your partner.

Evaluate your partner's wants and feelings, big or small. To be a partner in the memory of his happiness as well as to be a sympathizer of sorrow. Judging by age and time, the rise and fall of aspiration are very normal. It is very important to touch and feel each other. Life never ends with age. Rather, it is the desire to discover and enjoy life in many ways.

The geniuses say ...

Writer-playwright Neil Simpson says, ‘Take care of your partner. Let him feel that you value him. Don't keep your love for her a secret. Rather keep it public and alive. If you can do that, then you are at the top of every 100 happy couples. '

According to psychologist-author Jackson Brown, when the happiness of your spouse is more valuable to you than your own happiness, elusive happiness will automatically come into your hands.

Psychologists interpret conjugal life as a scientific organization. That is, for a happy life, happiness needs to be planned and implemented. If there is a problem in conjugal life, it can be repaired.

Never underestimate your own claims. The demands of the spouse should be given priority while keeping one's dignity intact. It will not work if the wife or husband is one-sided. It must be on both sides. For this, mutual respect, understanding, mutual understanding, and importance are very important. Family happiness is as important as the quality of a woman, as well as the quality and participation of men.

Everyone should also remember the joke of Catherine Mansfield, the world-famous short story writer from New Zealand. He says that it is better not to be unaccounted for in the budget of daily expenses. But never reckon with the family's happiness budget.