Some tips to help you adapt to your new family life

You are newly married. So the mind is very lively. The man of choice has found a life partner. So, for those who are newly married, the new reality will start only after the end of the honeymoon period. This means that you are now a member of a new family, so you have to understand a little bit. And if it goes wrong in the new situation, then you will have to suffer for the rest of your life. And in such a case, it will not take long for the person of choice to go bad. So here are 10 tips for newly married women. Adhering to these will make your family life more prosperous.

1) Make your husband's family your own:

You must first realize that this is the family of your most beloved people. His family means your family too. So arrange your family as you like. That is why the new family should be arranged with everyone, not by excluding or neglecting anyone.

Remember, in-laws, are never your opponents. Think of them as a new addition to your family, you will see that it will not seem so unfamiliar then. Your husband grew up in this family and he loves this family more than anything in the world. And the people he loves are the people you love too.

2) Exclude ego:

Eliminate any kind of ego. Ego problems play a major role in causing bitterness in family relationships. Always be polite, keep the ego away. Any empty space can be filled with love. It may take time, but it is not impossible. If you want to make a new family beautiful, you have to eliminate the ego.

3) Do not compare:

Never make a mistake to compare the father-in-law's house with the father's house. Two families mean two different environments, never to be compared. It may be that the things that you did not find in your father's house are coming to your father-in-law's house. Then what to say, that the father's house was not good before? Surely not. Each family has its own set of rules and regulations. Respect them. It may take a while to get used to it, but the ‘can’t’ or ‘don’t’ attitude will only increase the unrest.

4) Try to get to know the family:

Try to get to know the new family better. In this case, your husband can be your most trusted partner. Learn about everyone in the family from him. Get to know your relatives. Talk to them on your own. A lot of times a little bit of fun is made with the bride at home. Don't take it negative or upset at first. After the wedding, there is a festive atmosphere at home. Then such laughter and jokes continue. If you feel uncomfortable about something, do not react immediately. However, if something goes wrong, you can gently let your husband know.

5) Give priority to children:

Mix with the kids at home first. It is much easier to make friends with children than with adults. Tell stories to the kids at home, make them their favorite food, or help them draw. Help them with their studies. This will make you have an easy relationship with the kids. Besides, the adults in the house will have a good attitude towards you.

6) Respect the elders:

Respect the elders of the house. Even when talking, eating, or if you are sitting quietly. It is strictly forbidden to press the mobile phone in front of the adults in the house. It's very rude. Sit at the dinner table and listen to family discussions with others, but do not give your opinion at the beginning. Understand the whole thing first, then give feedback. Listen to their old-fashioned story with mother-in-law or father-in-law at leisure. If you think they are enjoying it, then encourage them to do the same. Put mother-in-law in mother's place. Make the relationship between wife and mother-in-law sweet.

7) Help with family work:

No one will give you the responsibility of cooking the whole house when you come to the new house. So you should help them with small matters. Whether it's cooking or tidying up, extend a helping hand to yourself.

But be a little careful. Before doing any work, ask the mother-in-law or sister-in-law how do they do that work? There is nothing wrong with that. Every home has some different rules for all work. Know them, you will see that there is no problem.

8) Keep in regular contact:

Keep in touch regularly. If your father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law, or sister-in-law is not with you, call your father-in-law and mother-in-law once a day to ask how their day is going. Tell them what you did all day. This will make the relationship easier in a short time. Also contact other members like a brother-in-law, sister-in-law at least two or three times a week. The relationship will be good. Will be stronger. Your relationship with your sister-in-law should be like that of your sisters.

Occasionally visit their home and ask them to come too. In fact, no relationship lasts without travel.

9) Praise your partner:

Praise your partner for no reason. Everyone has good points and bad points. But your partner's family members already know this. It would not be right for them to be annoyed or complain about these things again. Praise your partner rather than in front of them. They will be happy too. Your married life will be sweeter.

10) Speak directly:

If you have a problem with a family member, understand it first, whether it is serious at all. If you feel serious then speak directly. But it should be done with humility. The problem with the mother-in-law is, call your mother right away and try it yourself before telling her. In most cases, the best solution comes from your own efforts. These are the simple secrets of a happy married life.

After marriage, new people, the new family will have a little problem. Try to understand them without looking at them negatively. This is a time of joy, of loving each other. This time will never come back again. So deal with them wisely, without losing your peace of mind over small matters. You see, slowly everything is fine. You will become a member of the family before the end of the year. They will love it and like you too. Life is all about being happy together. There is no happiness in being alone. So be good to yourself and keep everyone around you well.