Some Ways to Make Yourself Respectful

 

Power is dead but honor is immortal. The wall of power is broken one day or another, the end is seen but the wall of honor remains intact. Honor never ends. Respect is a valuable asset. So everyone wants to get people's respect. No one can be found who does not want respect. From day one, we are doing everything to increase or maintain our self-esteem. We all want everyone to respect us. And this honor makes us raise our heads step by step. People don't like those who don't have respect and society doesn't value them. If others truly respect you - you are a successful person even if you have nothing.

There are many rich and powerful people - who are not happy with so much power or money, because they know - people do not really respect them. No one will look back at them once their power or money is gone.

Again, some people have no power in the general sense, no money - but everyone respects and love them. They are much more successful and happy as human beings than the disrespectful rich or powerful.

A truly honorable man lives a life of contentment. Others obey them. Many leaders in the history of the world have become such great leaders only because of the respect of their followers.

If people don't respect you as a person - you can't succeed in any way. If you want to be an entrepreneur, you must first earn the respect of others. If you want to be a good speaker or leader or to go to the top position in any other field - you have to be a respectable person

If you follow the following ways correctly, you too will be able to develop as a recipient of everyone's respect.

1. Respect yourself:

It is very important to respect yourself. Because how can people respect a person who can't respect himself? So self-esteem is the real thing. This is the first step towards being respected by the people. Your self-confidence doubles when you learn to respect yourself and start to value yourself. So if you want to earn respect, your first task will be to respect yourself.

2. More days than power:

No one likes those who just want to take but don't want to give. Everyone is reluctant to do them. Suppose someone comes to you again and again to borrow money and does not help you in need. You certainly don't like that person. Again, if you are a student, if the student sitting in the seat in front of you is looking at each subject while writing, but no subject can help you, then you will be annoyed with that student and may not show up next time. The same is true of respect. If you want to get respect, respect people without expecting to get respect from anyone. Try to respect more people than you always get. At the end of the day, your bag will be full.

3. Keep your promise:

People can't stand the respect of a person who doesn't match in words and deeds. People don't trust them if they can't keep their word. Suppose you let a tailor make a dress and you go to get clothes just like the delivery date he gave you but he gave another date and kept turning you around, then what will be your attitude towards that tailor? It was just an example. In all such cases, the consequences of breaking the promise are exactly the same. But respectable people keep their word or promise. So to gain respect, you have to keep your promise.

4. Prepare yourself to be honored:

No one will respect you if you are chaotic. So you have to restrain yourself. If you want to earn everyone's respect, you have to prepare yourself that way. Be kind, encourage others, extend a helping hand. Do no harm to others and think before you speak. Only then can you gradually gain the respect of the people.]

5. Take the challenge:

Not everyone can take the challenge. And those who can are examples in our eyes. So get out of your safe place and do something. People respect him, he can take on challenges and take risks. On the other hand, people do not respect those who hide in the house out of fear and they do not deserve it. So learn to accept challenges in life. And by doing so, you can be transformed into an example in front of others. In this way, you will become a sharer of honor.

6. Keep up the good content but be tactful:

No one likes liars. Those who constantly lie are not worthy of human respect. So if you want to be a respected person, tell the truth. Don't go for less than your full potential. It can do more harm than good to you. It turns out that these lies have become your enemy. So it is always better, to tell the truth. Again, do not tell the truth that will harm people. In this case, you have to become a little tactful. Of course, tell the truth, but in a way that does not harm others.

7. Be positive:

Just as positivity can lead people to the pinnacle of success, it can also bring respect. And this positivity will bring an endless fountain of happiness into your life. So to be respected and to be successful in life, it is very important to be endowed with these qualities. So look at life positively, be positive about people and of course about your own abilities.

8. Encourage others:

The goal of our society is to pull others down. The idea of "I can't do it so I won't let anyone else do it" has spread through our holes. But I have lost the ability to encourage someone to work. That great virtue has gone after being covered with the veil of violence. But it is not possible to gain respect in society if these minds are nurtured. So people have to be encouraged to work by overcoming violence. As a result, as soon as we get respect, our country will also move forward with the help of all good initiatives.

9. Learn to say sorry: 

Many of us have these misconceptions in our minds that saying sorry will reduce our respect, hurt our personality, make us smaller, and so on. Which is entirely caused by our misconceptions. And from this misconception, we do not regret if we make a mistake, even if it hurts people's minds. Due to which people lose faith in us. As a result, our dignity is ruined. Just as we expect them to be sorry for the mistakes of others and are disappointed if they are not, so they expect the same thing for the mistakes we make. It is not at all disrespectful to apologize for one's wrongdoing. It is a work of honor. We see this example when we look at respectable people.

10. Learn to say "no":

In many cases, we can't say "no" to the wrong thing for the sake of the relationship or any other reason. Which is definitely not recommended. A respectable person never compromises in his life. Saying “no” to the wrong thing and “yes” to the right thing shows your mental fortitude and at the same time shows your honest courage. That will increase your respect for others.

11. Obey what you say to others:

We are all good at advising others. Do it this way, do it that way, etc., it doesn't bother us at all to give all the instructions. But as soon as we can do those tasks ourselves, those instructions run away. I don't believe them myself. When you don't obey your own instructions, why would anyone else obey and respect your words? So if you give any habit or any instruction to others, follow it yourself, then they will also accept your opinion with respect. So if you give advice to others, follow it yourself.

12. Be responsible:

Everyone likes a responsible person. A sense of responsibility changes a person completely. It widens the door of their thinking and boosts their self-confidence. It even establishes them as respectable in the eyes of all. So you have to become responsible. Take responsibility in personal life or in a professional field. Because if you want to free yourself from trouble by imposing everything on others, no one will respect you but it will degrade your position. So learn to take responsibility, awaken the sense of responsibility and as a result, you will get respect as well as love.

13. Be careful in choosing clothes:

This may seem trivial to you but it is very important. Because this is where we usually make the mistake. Clothing alone does not bring us respect, but it does play a role. Suppose you go to an event wearing a shrunken shirt and pants, then you will see that people are giving you less priority. On the other hand, if you join the ceremony by dressing nicely and wearing a dress that matches your personality, then many people will have a good idea about you. So be careful when wearing clothes. Wear tidy clothes that go with your personality and discard those that don't.

14. Follow the code of conduct:

Only your good deeds can make you respected by everyone. No one will like you if you misbehave. You can earn respect by treating everyone nicely. To understand the code of conduct and treat the person with whom you are behaving and the person who will be happy if you treat him. Be gentle with the elders. Be friendly with your peers and understand the environment and follow your code of conduct.

15. Refrain from criticizing others:

Criticism has become a daily occurrence. There are some groups, their stomach food is not digested without criticism. No one likes these critics. And the mentality of respecting them does not come. So refrain from criticizing others to gain respect. If you don't have the power to help or encourage, you don't have the right to criticize. To inspire others without criticizing them. Then you will be at the forefront of human dignity.

In the end, I will say that honor is immortal. The real goal of life is to live with human love and respect. And to gain respect, you must first learn to respect others. If you respect others, your own bag of honor will be full.

The wealth of many great leaders and sages of the world had nothing to say. There wasn’t even a living room and there was only one to wear. But great heroes and emperors respected them. This is because they became respected in the eyes of the people with their knowledge, courage, and honesty.