12 reasons why you are a failure and everything goes wrong
If your life is not where you expected it to be right now, there are a few reasons that may explain why you are in this situation.
Perhaps you feel that you have failed in
everything you have done so far and that everything in life is going wrong for
you. But you can fix it and be successful from now on if you accept that there
are things you don't do well and are willing to work on them.
At the moment we're going to explore together some of the most important
reasons why you may have been failing so that you're clear about what's
precluding you from achieving your pretensions.
Once you have discovered what your weak points
are, you can begin to work on them and take action to change your life for the
better.
12 reasons why you are a failure and everything goes wrong.
1. You have not faced your greatest fear
We all have a fear that dominates our lives; for
some it is trying new things, getting out of our comfort zone, or being afraid
of failing.
For others, their greatest fear is relating to new people, learning a new skill, or even the fear of not knowing how to do something well.
You already know what scares you the most to do in life. But if you don't decide to face that fear, you will never succeed at the level you want or would like.
And the reason is simple: surely that fear is what has been holding you back for all these years, and the culprit is that you have not achieved the goals you wanted so much.
So hit that fear hard, start taking small steps TODAY to overcome it, and you will see how the obstacles that until now prevented you from going further begin to collapse in your path.
You can do it! You have enough courage and strength to face anything in this life.
For others, their greatest fear is relating to new people, learning a new skill, or even the fear of not knowing how to do something well.
You already know what scares you the most to do in life. But if you don't decide to face that fear, you will never succeed at the level you want or would like.
And the reason is simple: surely that fear is what has been holding you back for all these years, and the culprit is that you have not achieved the goals you wanted so much.
So hit that fear hard, start taking small steps TODAY to overcome it, and you will see how the obstacles that until now prevented you from going further begin to collapse in your path.
You can do it! You have enough courage and strength to face anything in this life.
2. NOTHING you do motivates you
If there is nothing or no one in your life that
motivates or inspires you even a little bit, then you have a problem...
We all need something that excites us, sends a shiver down our spine, and gives us the motivation we need.
And we all have that thing that excites us and makes our hearts go faster when we think about it. The problem is that numerous times we don't stop to look for what motivates us so much.
Perhaps right now you are thinking “there is nothing that inspires me, motivates me, or likes me”, but it is not true.
What happens to you is that you have no way stopped to suppose about what you're passionate about, or what you enjoy your happiest moments with.
That's why you should do the following exercise: sit in a quiet place with paper and a pencil, think of all those things that you could be doing for hours without getting bored, and write them down.
If you feel unmotivated, you may not think of anything for the first 5 or 10 minutes or you may have a hard time thinking about what makes you happy.
But don't give up: strive to find that activity or that purpose that fulfills you.
If you find it very difficult to find something that inspires you, go outside and do not stop trying new things until you find it.
We all need something that excites us, sends a shiver down our spine, and gives us the motivation we need.
And we all have that thing that excites us and makes our hearts go faster when we think about it. The problem is that numerous times we don't stop to look for what motivates us so much.
Perhaps right now you are thinking “there is nothing that inspires me, motivates me, or likes me”, but it is not true.
What happens to you is that you have no way stopped to suppose about what you're passionate about, or what you enjoy your happiest moments with.
That's why you should do the following exercise: sit in a quiet place with paper and a pencil, think of all those things that you could be doing for hours without getting bored, and write them down.
If you feel unmotivated, you may not think of anything for the first 5 or 10 minutes or you may have a hard time thinking about what makes you happy.
But don't give up: strive to find that activity or that purpose that fulfills you.
If you find it very difficult to find something that inspires you, go outside and do not stop trying new things until you find it.
3. You let outside forces control you
Does your boss tell you what to do every day Are the monthly bills
you have to pay controlling your life? Do you hesitate to do certain
things because you fear that others will judge or criticize you?
These external factors are responsible for your failure so far because you have allowed them to control your life.
still, you'll noway be suitable to achieve the true success that YOU want, If you let other people or other effects tell you what's important to you.
We all have bills to pay, and people in our lives criticize us because they don't like what we do, how we act, or even how we dress...
But you must not let that take control of your life.
Do not pay attention to those who speak badly about you: surely they envy you because you have been brave to do something that they do not dare.
And if your master or your bills overwhelm you, look for ways to break that situation similar to looking for another job, talking to him, or slicing charges and saving part of your advanced payment.
These external factors are responsible for your failure so far because you have allowed them to control your life.
still, you'll noway be suitable to achieve the true success that YOU want, If you let other people or other effects tell you what's important to you.
We all have bills to pay, and people in our lives criticize us because they don't like what we do, how we act, or even how we dress...
But you must not let that take control of your life.
Do not pay attention to those who speak badly about you: surely they envy you because you have been brave to do something that they do not dare.
And if your master or your bills overwhelm you, look for ways to break that situation similar to looking for another job, talking to him, or slicing charges and saving part of your advanced payment.
4. You fall into temptation too easily…
Are you one of those people that every time
something goes wrong, you go out and buy something to have a little more joy?
Or those who, when there is a problem, prefer to stay at home, eating pizza and watching TV, or not get out of bed?
Stop falling into those temptations all the time and start having a little discipline with yourself.
You cannot have the life of a millionaire or a successful person if you always let those little pleasures take you away from your true goal.
Or those who, when there is a problem, prefer to stay at home, eating pizza and watching TV, or not get out of bed?
Stop falling into those temptations all the time and start having a little discipline with yourself.
You cannot have the life of a millionaire or a successful person if you always let those little pleasures take you away from your true goal.
Your mind is a specialist in tricking you by
tempting you with things that you don't need and that won't do you any good.
That's why you must realize those tricks and learn to say no when those
thoughts come to you.
This is the only way to take advantage of the time
you have, do valuable things, and reach the goal you have set for yourself.
5. You listen to anyone who has an opinion
A friend of mine once told me: Jenny, opinions
are like belly buttons, everyone has one.
And my friend is very right: we all have an
opinion on each topic or each thing. But that doesn’t mean that all the commentary
they make us are good.
People will always tell you what they think you
should do, say, or how to behave. But they are not you.
Yes, it is good that you listen to them and take
the advice they give you; but it is you who must make your own decisions and
not depend on others when they tell you what is best for you.
6. You are too lazy!
Getting out of bed every morning or staying in
bed late is the first sign that will tell you if you are ready to be
successful, or if you prefer to remain a failure who'll noway achieve anything in
life...
Taking action is the most important thing to succeed and be successful.
If you are not able to wake up to start doing things that lead you to where you want, then you will never get anywhere.
Get your burro off the settee or president and start working for what you want. It's time to try 5 times more than you were doing so far so you can find something that motivates you and helps you achieve your goals.
Taking action is the most important thing to succeed and be successful.
If you are not able to wake up to start doing things that lead you to where you want, then you will never get anywhere.
Get your burro off the settee or president and start working for what you want. It's time to try 5 times more than you were doing so far so you can find something that motivates you and helps you achieve your goals.
7. Your room is a pigsty
No, I am not your mother trying to tell you how
you should live your life. But keeping your room clean and tidy is what will
help you stay on top of things and keep your mind clear and organized.
Think about it: your room is probably where you have the most ideas about things you want to do. And maybe it's where you work to meet those goals you've set for yourself.
And it'll be veritably delicate for you to work if you have effects then and there lying around, disorganized, or dirty.
Success is about having discipline, and a clean room is part of that regimen.
Think about it: your room is probably where you have the most ideas about things you want to do. And maybe it's where you work to meet those goals you've set for yourself.
And it'll be veritably delicate for you to work if you have effects then and there lying around, disorganized, or dirty.
Success is about having discipline, and a clean room is part of that regimen.
So collect everything you have in your room and
stop living like a teenager who doesn't care about anything.
8. You are always humiliating others
The easiest thing in the
world is to condemn others for what they do. If you go to any
game of football or any other sport, you will see tons of people yelling at the
players and telling them how bad they are at that sport.
But humiliating or censuring others is also the easiest way to fail in life.
Forget about what others do and focus on how you can be better in your life.
Instead of putting others down and telling them how horrible they are or how bad they do something, try to inspire and motivate them by appreciating the work they do.
Remember that the real winners in life are the ones who lift people, not the ones who drag them down.
But humiliating or censuring others is also the easiest way to fail in life.
Forget about what others do and focus on how you can be better in your life.
Instead of putting others down and telling them how horrible they are or how bad they do something, try to inspire and motivate them by appreciating the work they do.
Remember that the real winners in life are the ones who lift people, not the ones who drag them down.
9. Why do you dress like this?
It may seem silly to you, but the way you dress
and your care say a lot about the person you are, how others see you, and how
that affects your mind.
If your beard is unkempt, if your hair is tangled, and you smell like you just came out of a garbage can, no one is going to take you seriously, not even yourself.
Take pride in your appearance and don't be afraid to show your personality at the same time when you dress.
Realize that when you dress well and are clean, you will also feel good about yourself, and that will give you the motivation and energy to go for everything you set out to do
If your beard is unkempt, if your hair is tangled, and you smell like you just came out of a garbage can, no one is going to take you seriously, not even yourself.
Take pride in your appearance and don't be afraid to show your personality at the same time when you dress.
Realize that when you dress well and are clean, you will also feel good about yourself, and that will give you the motivation and energy to go for everything you set out to do
10. You wake up very late!
One of the things super successful people do is
wake up early every morning. None of them get up later than 7:30 on weekdays.
The earlier you wake up, the faster you can start your day, and the more time you have to do all the things you want or need.
Going to sleep late, and then waking up late is what is killing your success and making you a failure.
The earlier you wake up, the faster you can start your day, and the more time you have to do all the things you want or need.
Going to sleep late, and then waking up late is what is killing your success and making you a failure.
11. You never help others
When was the last time you
did something for someone else for no reason? You will never succeed in life if
you don't understand that giving is what really makes the world work positively.
The more you help others,
the more you will get what you want, and the chances are higher that someone else
will also help you succeed.
You don't even need to
have a reason to do something nice for someone else.
You just have to learn to
take positive habits like helping others and being generous with others to
start being a winner in your life.
Going to sleep late, and then waking up late is
what is killing your success and making you a failure.
12. You think you are already successful
Perhaps you are one of
those people who believes that they are already successful… You may show off in
front of others the nice car you bought for yourself, or the luxurious watch
that they gave you for your birthday a few months ago.
But those things don't
actually make you successful. In fact, what prevents you from succeeding and
being happy with your success is thinking that you have already achieved
everything you wanted in life.
Success is not something
that is built and, once finished, you do not have to do anything else. You must
maintain it and set other goals that will give you success in other areas of
your life.
And do not think that you
are a winner for having more money than your neighbor or a better house.
Actually what gives
success in life are the people around you, the experiences you live, and how
good you feel about yourself.
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