If you want to be rich and successful, you must give up these 15 habits

 

01. Can you stand on your own two feet in a bad situation?

02. How much knowledge do you think you have gained so far?

03. Do you have the courage to admit your mistakes?

04. Can you stay positive in any situation?

05. How much work and attention can you put into achieving the goal?

06. Do you always try to solve the problem yourself?

07. How much can you adapt to change?

08. Can you make your own decisions?

The question that may arise in your mind is, did you start with 8 questions ?. Take this as a self-improving game.

Below is a list of 8 differences between winners and losers. We want you to think about these questions to learn about these eight differences. In the end, there are some more questions for you that you will understand better after reading this list.

But before we get into the list, let's learn a little more about these two types of people, so that you can understand the differences.

Who are the real winners and losers?

We all know the meaning of Winner and Loser. But even if we have a clear idea about the winner, the idea about the loser seems to need to be clarified a little better.

When we fail at something, we often put a defeat tag on it. But the truth is, a person cannot be called a loser if he first fails in a task. Failure is actually a step towards victory. No one is victorious in life at once. A man learns to be a winner by taking lessons from failure.

Suppose you challenged a man to climb a mountain 3,000 feet high. The first time he climbed 500 feet and couldn't get up, that means he failed. Then he tried again. He started taking training and started improving his fitness. Thus 500 to 1000; 1000 to 2000; Then finally he was able to climb 3000 feet.

This man must be called the winner. Because he did not give up even after repeated failures. He has tried to win the challenge despite losing again and again. If he had accepted defeat by trying for the first time or the first few times, then he could have been called defeated. Even after hundreds of failures, when a person keeps trying without accepting defeat, he cannot be called defeated. He is on his way to victory.

A person with a winning mentality can be a winner even if he wants to. But a man with a defeatist mentality cannot do that. People with a defeatist mentality are afraid to go to work for fear of failure.

People with a defeatist mentality are always afraid of what others will think of them, what they will say about them. He measures himself with the eyes of others at all times. He has no goal of his own, what he wants to achieve is success in the eyes of others. A man with a defeatist mentality can never learn anything new because his mind is stuck within a certain boundary. He believes that if you want to do something big in life, you have to be lucky. This is why they sit in the hope of changing their destiny instead of trying something on their own. According to people with a defeatist mentality, to be born with an extraordinary talent for great success. That is, the successful are born successful. As a student with a defeatist mentality, students who do well in their class are actually born with a lot of talent. No matter how much he studies, he will not be able to get good results like them. As a result of this idea, he does not even try to do well. But to be honest, all success is actually the result of intensive practice and self-confidence. When he suddenly gets something, it is called a success, not a success.

No matter how big the goal of a true winner, he believes that he can achieve it. So he kept trying even after failing again and again. On the other hand, people with a defeatist mentality are afraid to think of big goals.

Almost all the success-winning people in the world have failed many times, but they have done their job by not accepting defeat to that failure. They never gave up; Never afraid to make mistakes. What many don't know is that even before Thomas Alva Edison, many people did research on electric lamps. But no one could succeed. Thomas also failed 10,000 times. But he believed he could, so he tried even after failing to test 10,000 times. This is the biggest difference between a true winner and a loser. Even if they fail, they do not give up.

But there are other differences that everyone needs to know.

Below are 8 such big differences. Read carefully and try to understand which team you actually belong to:

1. True winners are inspired by themselves

A true winner knows what he wants out of his life, and never compromises on that. If he is in a bad situation, he does not need any motivation from outside to get him out of it. They find motivation from different places by themselves instead of waiting for another person's motivation. If he doesn't know anything, he tries to find out for himself, if he needs advice, he goes to an expert himself or studies.

Whenever bad times come in the life of a victorious-minded person, he can inspire himself. When times are bad and a loser gets frustrated, a winner jumps to work with more enthusiasm and vitality. Either way, he finds a solution to the problem. Nothing can stop him except death alone before he achieves what he wants.

2. True winners learn all the time

A defeated mentality person believes that there is no need to learn more. According to him, luck is the key to success. According to him, if he is lucky, he will succeed - there is no need for knowledge or skill in this case. He can't update himself because of this kind of mentality. He sits with his hands folded without trying to develop himself.

Another big problem with this type of mentality is that they seem to know a lot about anything. As far as he knows, Setuku thinks it is the highest knowledge. It is difficult to find any new information about that. So his knowledge does not increase.

On the other hand, a true winner always wants to learn new things. She understands that she doesn’t know everything about everything. He knows the power of knowledge, and that is why they try to read and know all the time.

The true winner knows that there is something to be learned from the pages of every book, from every human being. Every human being knows something that he himself does not know. That is why a true winner does not feel arrogant or omniscient in front of anyone. They want to learn something from everyone. And that's how he leads himself to success.

3. True winners are not afraid to take responsibility

A major symptom of a defeatist mentality is that he does not take responsibility for himself. He always blames someone else or the situation for a mistake, fault, or failure. They do not have the courage to admit responsibility for their mistakes.

On the other hand, people with a winning mentality take 100% responsibility for all their work. A true winner believes that all the events of his life are the result of his own thoughts and actions. If he ever makes a mistake because of this belief, he can think about himself and find out the reason for that mistake. By doing so, he can correct himself and change his situation. He does not make the same mistakes over and over again. He has control over his emotions and actions at all times, and he has the courage to make his own decisions, even if he consults more experienced ones than himself when making decisions.

4. True winners are always optimistic

True winners can maintain a positive attitude in any situation. A true winner is always a man of positive thinking. In each case, they have seized it, despite obstacles we can scarcely imagine. " Such people never worry for long.        

Tension or negative thoughts will come in the head when in danger. But a person with a winning mindset does not pay much attention to that tension or anxiety. He knows that worries can never be resolved. In any case, he tries to see the light of hope by pushing away the worries. It is this positive attitude that leads him to the solution. When people with a defeated attitude see darkness in front of their eyes at adverse times, the winners see every problem as an opportunity to improve their condition. They think that the opportunity to solve a problem means to get one to increase one's abilities and skills.

Depressed and anxious people break down very easily. They have no control over their emotions. Winners, on the other hand, may be able to control their emotions and get up again, even if they push a little at first. And the biggest force behind this rise is their optimism.

5. The three qualities of a true winner: focus, hard work, and hard work

A big problem for people with a defeatist mentality is that they move away from the goal very easily. Since they do not have such a good idea about their life goals, they cannot be too dedicated to any task.

People with a winning mindset on the other hand can move towards their goals at all times. Their focus never shifts from the goal.

They know where they want to be tomorrow. They also know where they want to live after ten years, and under what circumstances they want to die.

Maybe everyone thinks this. But true winners work all the time to make that thought a reality. It is because of this action orientation that they can make that focus or thought a reality.

They do not believe in words but in deeds and hard work. While others seek happiness in the midst of rest, winners seek employment. They know that it is a waste of precious time to sit back and think. They can match time and work very well, they can work accordingly. And this is why they are more successful than others.

6. The mindset of overcoming limitations

People with a defeatist mentality keep themselves stuck in a circle all the time. If they get stuck in a problem, they make one excuse after another. They keep blaming whomever they can form their own misfortune. When they saw the lock hanging in front of them, they started complaining instead of trying to find the key to the lock.

They do not think that there can be many solutions to a problem. Once they are interrupted in a task, they are afraid to take another step forward. They do not try to improve their abilities because they do not have the mentality to overcome their limitations.

True winners, on the other hand, know that it is a waste of time to sit back. So they keep looking for solutions. One way after another is tested. And at one point he went out and found the right solution. In this way, they can learn something new and overcome their limitations all the time.

7. Ability to adapt to the situation

Only those animals can survive in nature that can adapt quickly to changing climates and climates. Many animals have become extinct since the beginning of the world just because they could not adapt. If you stand in front of the tiger fossils of thousands of years ago in the museum, you will find many similarities with the tigers of the present era. Because they have changed a lot to adapt to the changing climate of the world.

This example is given so that it becomes clear to you how to adapt. Now if we put this matter on the table of winners and losers, let's see what happens:

A man with a winning mindset never hesitates to make the necessary changes in a changed situation. On the other hand, people with a defeatist mentality are afraid to change themselves. Winners know that change is a part of life. They accept change and learn from new situations to become more skilled and advanced people. If he sees that he is weak in dealing with the current situation, he tries to increase his strength without backing down.

As the use of computers at work increased, many workers learned to use this new method and became more mature in their work. Again some people could not learn this new method due to fear. Many of them could no longer work.

Nokia, once the world's largest mobile phone company, can't survive in today's smartphone world without just embracing the new Android technology. Many small brands of that time also became big companies by adapting to new technology.

Thus new changes are always coming in every field of life. True winners welcome this change. To them, it is like a blessing, because they can learn something new from change. Others are slowly getting lost in the fear of seeing this change.

8. True winners do not float in the current

Many people do what others are doing all the time. When you go to an ice cream shop, most people buy what they buy. They don't buy their favorite ice cream. They follow the trend all the time.

Let's talk about a talented student with a defeatist mentality, who decided that he would be a big businessman if he was encouraged by one of the lectures while studying. But after finishing his studies, when he saw that most of his classmates were trying for BCS or something like that, he also started preparing for BCS by giving up his dream of seeing them. Can he be called a real winner here? - Another person who has always dreamed of becoming a government official - if he wants to be an entrepreneur after seeing others - he can not be called a man of winning mentality.

The real winner never floats in the current. He pursued his dream from the beginning. He starts with what he has, starts from where he is. People with a winning mindset do not wait for the 'right time'. When a unique idea comes to him, he doesn't wait to see if anyone else succeeds in leaving that idea on the market. He tests his own ideas.

Many people find that they have a lot of good ideas in their heads. But seeing that no one else is working on that idea, they back off. They need to watch the demo all the time. When someone else succeeds in doing something, they run after that job. And for this reason, they are always behind the first.

If Mark Zuckerberg had waited to see how successful someone else would be with such a site before he started Facebook, it is safe to say that we would have given status and chatted on a site other than Facebook today.

True winners never wait to see how others succeed. They went to work as planned. They know that if you can start first, you can stay ahead. They plan by comparing their unique ideas with other ideas. They test the possibilities with their own intellect and research. They may follow others to learn from their knowledge and experience but never imitate. They work on the formula of Zero to One book. Wants to do something huge starting from zero.

Let's finish the game:

You must read these differences between the real winners and losers and let us know what you think. But more importantly, once you look at yourself and judge objectively, whether you actually have a 100 percent winning mentality or not. At the very beginning, you were asked eight questions. No, you don't have to go up again to see the questions.

Now that you know enough information to find and analyze the answers to the questions, we've arranged the questions below in a little more detail. Throw away all doubts and think with a neutral and transparent mind. Our ego always tells us to run away from the truth. So judging oneself impartially is a very difficult task for a human being. Try to get out of your 'comfort zone. Then ask yourself:

1. Am I really able to stand on my own two feet in a bad situation? Or do I have to rely on others for inspiration?

2. Do I really think I still have a lot to learn? Am I really learning something every day?

3. Do I really have the courage to take responsibility for all my mistakes and failures? Do I really have the courage to correct myself?

4. Can I be really optimistic and positive in any situation?

5. Do I have the qualities of focus, work ethic, and hard work? Am I determined by my goals? Am I working accordingly? Am I doing my best to do that?

6. Am I really looking for a solution to a problem? Or do I just sit and wait for help and complain? Do I really think about solving the problem?

7. Do I have the ability to adapt to any situation?

8. Am I really moving toward my goal, or am I just floating around in the current? Can I live like myself?

Dear reader, look to yourself and honestly find the answers to these questions. Think again and again about how accurate the answers are. Don't fall into the trap of your own ego. If the answer to any of these questions is ‘no’, then instead of thinking of yourself as small and weak, think of it as an opportunity to strengthen yourself anew.

Take advantage of the opportunity, become one of the real winners. Fighters are with you at all times on the path to your success and victory. If you want to write to us on a particular topic, let us know in the comments. If you like the article, share it and give others a chance to see it. All our efforts are for the success of the readers.